One of the most devastating elements of the coronavirus pandemic has been the inability to personally take care of the wounds it has been infected with.
Once and for all, the relatives in a duel related to each other more devastatingly than the death of their loved one because the powder does not take the mano to burn a familiar and familiar presence in his last days and hours.
Some people say that they say goodbye to the last of the work on the phone of a mobile phone that employs a sanitary worker. Otros recurrieron al uso de walkie-talkies oa saludar a sus familiares a través de las ventanas.
How can the pain and the culprit be surpassed by surgen when he feels like he wants to be alone?
No connection is an esta pregunta. Pero the work of a palliative care physician called Christopher Kerr, with whom he wrote the book Death Is But a Dream: Finding Hope and Meaning at Life’s End (“Death is no more than a dream: find hope and meaning in the end of the vida ”), could offer some advice.
Visitors inexperienced
At the beginning of his career, Dr. Kerr increased the rate, as did all physicians, to increase the physical health of his patients.
But I noticed a phenomenon when the nurses were experimenting with the usual things.
While patients are dying at death, many tenants are having visions of their failed failures that are regressing to consuls in their last days.
Medicines are capable of interpreting these successes as delusional or induced medications that may justify more medication or total sedation.
But to see the peace and consolation that these end-of-life experiences experience in proportion to his patients, Kerr decided to take a break and listen.
One day, in 2005, a moribund patient named Mary had one of those visions: she began to move the braces as she cared for a baby, rolling in her hat that had killed her child decades ago.
For Kerr, this is a cognitive deterrent. It is expected that passers-by will perceive patients’ perceptions at the end of life will have an impact on their well-being in a way that does not require nurses, chaplains and social workers.
How will medical attention be taken if all the medical practices are detected and monitored?
Start the project
So, in order to see the moribund patients lame to their shortcomings, many of the wounds have not been seen, touched or exhorted for decades, commenced to retrieve and record testimonies of mournful women.
Over the course of 10 years, Kerr and his research team recorded the end-of-life experiences of 1,400 patients and families.
The one who discovered the asombró. More than 80% of its patients, without importing the social ambition, originating from the provenance-bearing group, will experience at the end of the life that parishioners involve more than just extraneous people.
These are vivid, significant and transformative. And always increase in frequency near death.
Including visions of mothers, fathers and parents disappears much time, as well as dead mascots that regress to console to his two antiquities.
It deals with reciprocal relations, love revivals and forgiveness. ‘N Menudo traian consuelo y apoyo, paz y aceptación.
Convert to a teeedor de sueños
The first time that sup about Dr. Kerr’s investigation was in a closet.
It was occupied by limping the stable of my horse. The estates are located in Kerr’s property, which we discuss at work on the issues and visions of its morbid patients.
I love my charcoal TEDx on the subject, as well as the book project he’s working on.
You can not avoid feeling overwhelmed by the work of this medicine and science.
When I revealed that I did not advance much with the writing, I offered to help. Dudo to principle.
He is an English professor who specializes in disarming the stories that other writers, not in writing his own.
To his agent the preoccupation that I could not write the form accessible to the public, algo by the fact that the academics are not exactly known. Persistí y el resto es historia.
This is a collaboration with what I wrote in writing.
I agree with the rate of inclusion of more humanity in the notable medical intervention that represents this scientific investigation, to give a human grid to the statistical data that has been published in medical reviews.
The stories of Kerr’s encounters with his patients and families are confirmed by him, in the words of the renowned French writer Michel de Montaigne, “the man who taught men to die, at the same time he had to live”.
I was intrigued by Robert, who had been dating Barbara, his wife for 60 years, and she was embarrassed by conflicting feelings of guilt, desperation and feud.
An inexplicable day the vio alcanzar to the baby that habían lost decades ago, in a brief note of suicidal suicides that hicieron eco of the experience of Mary years old.
Robert was impressed by the tranquil behavior and the happiness of his wife.
There was a moment of pure fullness that transformed his experience of the killing process.
Barbara has been living in bankruptcy since a recovering love affair, and will be returning to Robert Algo de Paz in the middle of his irremediable loss.
For the mayoral parties that Kerr will take care of, being separated from death after decades of union were simply unsound.
Joan’s suenños and recurring visions ayudaron to repair the profound herida that dies the failure of his few months ago.
It is called by night and signaled its presence during the day, including in full moments of laughter and articulation.
To his wife Lisa, these hechos mean that the corner of his fathers was examined. The sueños and visions of his mother before the death help Lisa in his proposal to make the acceptance, a key element of the process of the loss.
When the nieces are muriendo, ‘n menudo-son his mistresses mascottas failecidas las que hacen appearances.
Jessica, 13 years old, died of cancer, began to have visions of her dog, Shadow. In the presence of the tranquilizer.
“Stay well,” Dr. Kerr said in one of his most recent visits.
For Jessica’s mother, Kristen, these visions, and Jessica’s resulting tranquility, will help us initiate the process that we have been resisting: to start.
Aislado pero no solo
The health system is difficult to change. Without embarrassment, the doctor hopes to help patients and his loved ones recover the death process from a clinical setting to one that is appreciated as a unique and rich human experience.
The sueños and the visions prevailing in death help to alleviate the vacancy that, in other ways, can be created by the death and death that evoke death.
Ayudan to the moribundos to reunite with those he loves and loses, those who love security, support and peace.
Curan viejas heridas, restauran la dignidad y reclaman el amor. Knowing this paradoxical reality also helps the afflicted to face the pain.
Given that hospitals and senior citizens’ hospitals are closing in on visitors to the coronavirus pandemic, we can be sure that the moribundas will rarely be alone. Hablan de ser amados y de recomponerse.
Geen hooi substitute for being able to abraze our desires in their last moments, but you can have a counselor know that you are comfortable.