Pamela Anderson is accused of being a “housebreaker” after she allegedly stole her new husband from another woman and broke up a happy family of five.
The model and actress are accused of seducing handyman Dan Hayhurst – whom she married on Christmas Eve – while working on her property in the Canadian city of Ladysmith and in a relationship with another woman.
On Wednesday, the 53-year-old former Baywatch star announced that she had married her ‘bodyguard’, Dan, 40, in her sixth wedding, to her fifth husband, saying: ‘I’m exactly where I need to be – in the arms of a man who loves me. ‘
But Dan’s sad ex-Carey, who has lived with him for the past five years and raised his two children, recounted how she was blinded by the relationship and knew nothing of their marriage before reading it online.
She said the couple started getting close early last year – while she and Dan were still together – before finally moving out of their shared home in July.
Carey, 42, said: ‘It’s not the sheltered love story depicted, it’s all a facade.
‘I decided to speak out because I want people to know that my relationship of almost five years, with three children involved, ended because of the relationship that Pam and Dan started while he was still with me.
‘It’s sad that people are celebrating it and cheering them on when it starts with fraud, denial and life-threatening choices for all involved.
Worm twisted
‘It was not this romance that happened overnight. He worked with her for more than six months before anything happened.
‘He was not her bodyguard then, he was a handyman, she hired him to work on her house.
“We were all completely blinded by this, it was so difficult for us. And it’s not just me and the kids, a lot of people have been hurt by them. Then friendships and business relationships were lost through this. ”
Mom-of-one Carey, from Vancouver Island, and Dan, then a single dad, got together after meeting a dating app. his two young children.
The couple then moved to Vancouver Island about four years ago for a fresh start.
She said: ‘We did everything together, like family holidays, family fishing, and we worked on family projects together. It was always us. ”
But their happy lives would change forever after Dan was hired as a building contractor to renovate Pamela’s house, located on five acres in Ladysmith.
He started working there in the early fall of 2019 and complained to Carey about how ‘crazy’ Pamela was and how difficult and demanding she was to work for.
In one text shared with The Sun, he wrote: “The dragon has been released! Talk about Pam. ”
In January 2020, Pamela was ‘married’ to film producer Jon Peters before divorcing him two weeks later, claiming it was never a real wedding.
Carey said, ‘I would say,’ What are you doing? You have to get out of that job. It’s crazy ‘. There was a crazy trick when she married the old Jon Peters for two weeks.
‘She told all the contractors that she was going to get married the day before, and when I saw the news about it, I texted Dan.
“He replies back and says, ‘Hahaha he’s older than her father, but I think our money issues are over,’ which he meant because the man is rich.
“I thought it was quite ruthless of him. It seems like he really is not going on with her at all. ”
Carey said things started to change at the end of March last year, and Dan was spending more and more time outside the home.
She continued: ‘The worm turned around. Covid happened and it apparently only happened overnight.
‘Then she will stay at her house and not come home, and here I take care of the children.
“At first he denied it when I confronted him, but eventually I asked him, ‘Are you sleeping with Pam? He said: ‘All I’m going to say is that I crossed the line’.
“Initially, he said, ‘I want you to stay in our house. I do not want you to go. I just have to find out ‘.
“Later he apologized to me. He said, ‘Carey, I love you. I do not know what’s going on now. I’m not in my right head right now. I’m not in a good space ‘.
“He asked me to give him time to think things through so I could just do to him what he did.
And there was no stopping then. I met Pam and went to eat with her. My daughter used to work for her. I could not believe it. ”
Dan and Pamela’s relationship continued to develop and last year he moved out of the house he shared with Carey and moved in with Pam.
One-sided story
On Wednesday, Pam told an interviewer that she had been with Dan for a year and said, “This year together felt like seven, like dog years.”
Carey moved out of the shared home after Dan and is currently for sale.
She claims that he and Pam behaved like teenagers and said: ‘When he turned 40 last year, she bought him a boat.
“He has broken her car three times now, and her boat twice. It’s a walking mess. They sit on their property and drink – it’s like the Dan and Pam show. ”
Pam claims that she and Dan had the whole family and friends ‘blessing for their wedding, but Carey disputes this, saying,’ No one was invited to the wedding.
“He sent a message to his mother the night before the ceremony and said, ‘I’m going to get married tomorrow, keep it on the DL and do not say anything.’
And she does not answer. Like she obviously respected it because it’s her son, but she’s not invited. It does not even look like a real wedding. Everything seems so controlled. ”
She added: ‘He can be very manipulative, so it was made for each other in a sense, but I do not see it lasting. I would be very surprised.
Dan and I never got married because I never want to do it.
‘To me it’s nothing, it’s a piece of paper and it’s causing problems if you want to get out of it.
“And he said to me, ‘I will never marry again.’ And then we’re here, six or eight months, or whatever, they’re in their relationship and they’m married.
“I just think, ‘Wow, who are you?’ Who is the man I was with for five years? ‘None of this makes sense. ”
Carey’s daughter, Denise, 21, who worked as a laborer at Pam’s home, told The Sun she discovered Dan’s relationship: ‘I was shocked when I found out.
“I was just thinking, ‘How can this even be a thing?’ ‘I work here full time with them and had no idea.
‘And the fact that he had a family, we were a mixed family, he has two young children and she’s obviously much older.
What was his thought process? What was going on in his mind?
“I was so shocked. It’s something so unreal, like something that appears directly from the movies. I can not believe it. Everyone thinks it’s this concluding love story and no one knows that there was a relationship and that this family was involved.
‘And I think the hardest part is that people get this one-sided fairy tale, when in fact there is so much more to it.
“It simply came to our notice then. It was really hard for my mom.
She acted completely and was a full-time mother to those children. It was hard to see how she was going through it.
‘There was no rough patch or things that were bad at home, things were normal through the whole thing until it happened.
‘Pam does not have the best marriage record, that’s for sure. So when Covid is over and she can go back to traveling and what’s more, I really do not see it working. ”
How she got to hubby 5
PAM married wild rocker Tommy in 1995 after he only knew him for 96 hours and had two children with him, Brandon and Dylan.
The couple broke up after Motley Crue’s drummer assaulted her and spent six months in jail. They were divorced in 1998, but reunited briefly in 2008 before finally ending it again.
She became engaged to the rapper and musician in 2002, but they later went their own way. But after they reunited, they were married in 2006.
They broke up later that year. Pam had a miscarriage while the couple was married and they divorced shortly afterwards and called ‘irreconcilable differences’.
IN 2007, Pam and professional poker player Rick married in The Mirage hotel and casino in Las Vegas, but divorced just ten weeks later, calling the usual “irreconcilable differences” and the marriage was later officially annulled. They remarried in 2014, but in 2015 they divorced for the second time.
Pam first dated the filmmaker more than thirty years ago and they apparently untied the knot in January 2020 in a secret ceremony.
They divorced after twelve days and the actress later claimed in an Instagram caption that they were ‘never legally married’ and it was just a ‘bizarre theater meal’.