Pamela Anderson’s whirlwind romance and marriage to a builder she entered into to repair her Canadian home broke up a family of five, his ex claimed.
Anderson, 53, told DailyMailTV in a world-exclusive interview on Wednesday that she was married to Dan Hayhurst, 40, her fifth husband.
But on Thursday, Hayhurst’s ex, who was just named Carey, accused Anderson of being a ‘housebreaker’ in an interview with The Sun.
Anderson’s wedding took place on Christmas Eve at her estate in the town of Ladysmith, on Vancouver Island.
“We are really happy. “I’m happier than I have ever been,” Anderson told DailyMailTV.
Pamela Anderson and Dan Hayhurst get married on Christmas Eve on her Vancouver Island estate
Dan Hayhurst is pictured with Carey, a former partner. Carey described Anderson as a ‘housebreaker’ after she allegedly stole Hayhurst and broke up a happy family of five
The couple works with the RASTA Sanctuary, which provides an ‘eternal home’ for rescued farm animals on Vancouver Island. The sanctuary posted several photos of Anderson and her new husband on the building site and a video of Anderson feeding cows
‘It’s like a full circle – to come home and fall in love with someone who’s almost exactly like me, you know, I think the rest of it was a dream.
‘It looks more like reality and it’s just a good feeling to be at home and to be with someone who really cares about me and who I really am, who I think I am, you know, just like a girl, from the same area and we get along well. ‘
About the wedding, she said: ‘It was a short and sweet ceremony with a local pastor and just of course. It was effortless, not stressful. It’s effortless to be together ‘
But Carey hit the star’s version of events.
“It’s not the sheltered love story portrayed, it’s all a facade,” she told The Sun.
‘I decided to speak out because I want people to know that my relationship of almost five years, with three children involved, ended because of the relationship that Pam and Dan started while he was still with me.
“It’s sad that people are celebrating and cheering it on when it starts with fraud, denial and life-threatening choices for all involved.”
Carey told the newspaper that Hayhurst lived with her, her daughter Denise, 21, and his two young children until the summer.
The couple were never married, but Carey said they were in a committed relationship.
“We did everything together, like family vacations, family fishing, and we worked on family projects together,” she said.
“It was always us.”
Carey and Hayhurst met on a dating app five years ago and first lived in the town of Squarmish before moving to Vancouver Island.
Denise worked for Anderson, and then Hayhurst was employed by her in the fall of 2019.
Initially, Hayhurst complained about his boss, Carey said, describing her as ‘crazy’.
‘I’m married on the property I bought from my grandparents 25 years ago. This is where my parents got married and they are still together. I feel like I’ve got the full circle, ‘Anderson said.
The bridal bouquet was loosely wrapped in dusty blue tulle to match the dress and included a blue hydrangea, echoing the ocean and symbolizing the water element of emotion
Anderson met Hayhurst, who lived locally on Vancouver Island, at the beginning of the lock
In one text shared with The Sun, he wrote: ‘The dragon has been released! Talk about Pam. ‘
In January 2020, Anderson allegedly married film producer Jon Peters, but she divorced him two weeks later, saying it was never a real wedding.
Carey said, ‘I would say,’ What are you doing? You have to get out of that job. It’s crazy ‘. There was a crazy trick when she married the old Jon Peters for two weeks.
‘She told all the contractors that she was married, and when I saw the news about it, I texted Dan.
“He replies back and says, ‘Hahaha he’s older than her father, but I think our money issues are over,’ which he meant because the man is rich.
“I thought it was quite ruthless of him. It seems like he really is not going on with her at all. ‘
Carey said things started to change at the end of March last year, when the closure began and Hayhurst spent more and more time with Anderson.
“The worm has spun,” she said. ‘COVID happened and it apparently only happened overnight.
‘Then she will stay at her house and not come home, and here I take care of the children.
“At first he denied it when I confronted him, but eventually I asked him, ‘Are you sleeping with Pam?
“He said, ‘All I’m going to say is that I crossed the line.’
“Initially, he said, ‘I want you to stay in our house. I do not want you to go. I just have to find out ‘.
“Later he apologized to me. He said, ‘Carey, I love you. I do not know what’s going on now. I’m not in my right head right now. I’m not in a good space ‘.
“He asked me to give him time to think things through so I could just do to him what he did.
And there was no stopping then. I met Pam and went to eat with her. My daughter used to work for her. I could not believe it. ‘
Anderson married Hayhurst without any of their friends or family present
Under her wedding dress, Pamela Anderson said she was wearing a pair of sturdy Hunter rain boots while standing on the muddy ground of her property.
“I’m exactly where I need to be – in the arms of a man who truly loves me,” Canadian-born Anderson told DailyMailTV in an exclusive interview. Anderson, originally from Canada, shines in the screenshots of the wedding held by a local pastor, during which the couple read traditional vows.
Carey said he moved in July. She has meanwhile offered the house for sale.
Carey’s daughter Denise, 21, who worked as a laborer at Anderson’s home, told The Sun the couple managed to keep their relationship a secret even though she worked in the house with the two of them.
“I was shocked when I found out,” she said.
“I was just thinking, ‘How can this even be a thing?’ ‘I work here full time with them and had no idea.
‘And the fact that he had a family, we were a mixed family, he has two young children and she’s obviously much older.
What was his thought process? What was going on in his mind?
“I was so shocked. It’s something so unreal, like something that appears directly from the movies. I can not believe it. Everyone thinks it’s this concluding love story and no one knows that there was a relationship and that this family was involved.
Denise said she and her mother were upset because Anderson described it as a dream where other people were involved.
“And I think the most difficult thing is for people to be fed this one-sided fairy tale when in fact there is so much more attached to it,” Denise said.
“It simply came to our notice then. It was really hard for my mom.
She acted completely and was a full-time mother to those children. It was hard to see how she was going through it.
“There was no rough patch or things that were bad at home, things were normal throughout the whole thing until it happened.”
She speculated that Anderson, who moved full-time to her Canadian hometown in 2019, would resume a radiant life once the pandemic was over.
“I do not see it working,” she said.
Carey concluded, ” I just think, ‘Wow, who are you? Who is the man I was with for five years? ‘None of this makes sense. ‘
Anderson’s representative has yet to respond to DailyMail.com’s request.